Witnessing "Stuckness" in Empathy
Witnessing "Stuckness" in Empathy
Listening for the message this particular exile has to teach.
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Resonant World #64
I was delighted to hear about the level of resonance that some readers felt in response to my last post “What Is Healing?” (Resonant World#63.)
In the light of some of the comments I received, I felt an impulse to record a short transmission on the theme of the “stuckness” so many of us at times experience.
It’s a beautiful morning in south-west London, so I recorded this at my local park.
I usually write a lot of words, but I’ll rest it here for now with some pictures from my walk, and the video above.
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Thank you for your gentle and calming guidance through an otherwise seemingly pesky, bothersome topic. "Stuckness" and stagnation feel to me like boredom, but somehow a frozen version of it, as if within there's something trapped, longing to be freed, that wants to move but believes it can't. And as you demonstrated, stuckness (and whatever it is masking) longs just to be seen and witnessed. I appreciate how you provide a clear, human reminder and nudge to your readers to step outside of their routine for the day, breathe, and move through this micro process - like an energetic wellness check. And the birds in your background seemed to enjoy the journey as well.
Hi Matthew, thanks for taking a walk with my stuckness. It was beautiful how you welcomed it in and sat with it. Sure, it is usually turns up to protect one. Sometimes though it would help it was less protective and could surrender it*s deepest fear of non-perfection (in my case) and let go.